I was 42 years old when I did my first boudoir shoot. Not my youngest, most fit self.  That’s not why I did it, you can read about that here but the facts are that I was nervous as hell.

I did the homework the photographer gave me, followed her instructions for prepping, and did a little shopping, but I missed a few things.  Having experienced it, and seeing it all the time in my studio, I now understand what we can do to best prepare for that Boudoir shoot and ease the nerves (notice ease, not remove).  My clients get detailed homework, including an inspiration board, links to my favorite products, and no, nos.  So, here are my recommendations:

We came all the way to Scotland to get Covid  on the 5th day and spend the next 10 days isolated from the very extended family we came to spend the holidays with. It was bitter sweet; we were lucky to be together and fine,  but I am ready for this to end and life to return to normal. 

When you are in your 40s and a woman, you have often neglected yourself for at least a decade. Careers, kids, and/ spouses take precedence and it’s easy to fall last in line. I did. After homeschooling for 10 years, I was in awe of women that seemed to manage kids, careers, and self-care. Their grass definitely seemed greener than mine. I realized that if I was jealous it was because there was something they had that I didn't.